A Wake Up Call
Happy July everybody. It is 1st of July 2013. Half year of 2013 had gone peacefully. Hope that everybody is in the pink of health. We need a healthy lifestyle for a healthy life. I've bet everybody enjoyed their wonderful life, right. It's been a week i am having my special holidays. For your information, actually i already finished my bachelor degree of civil engineering, majoring geotechnical engineering with honors. Six years i need to chase my dream to be an engineer. Finally, i've made it. It's feels wonderful and delightful to know that. It is my ambition since i'm a little kid. Thanks GOD for your help and i am thankful that i have a very supportive people around me. Really proud of myself because i am strong enough to face and take any challenges along the journey.
Still can't believe it that i've done degree. So many ups and downs to get what i want. I simply don't wanna regret for what i've done. Besides studying degree, i also saw many kinds of people and know each type of them well. Sort of. For a few years before i finished my degree, actually i've learned alot. More than the past couple year before. I think i've changed a little. Hmm.. I don't know. But i just know. I feel it. Why? Maybe these few years i rather choose to do my stuffs alone than mix with my friends. I know maybe some of them noticed that too. Well, it doesn't mean that i don't need them, but i prefer to settle all my stuffs first and not mix them up with my friends or him. So, in that way i think i am more to myself more.. (ok..awkward, but hope you understand)
Something may seems not right somewhere. Some people may not understand what i do did or done. Some people misunderstood or never get it. Well, we can't pleased everybody in life, don't we. I know, if we do something, we need to do it the right way and systematically. Yes. I always think to plan all my stuffs before launch it. Why? Because i wanna try to please everybody. But, sometimes what we've planned we can't make it. Because....if the head says no means no. Ok fine. Stop trying to please everyone! Because that's what everyone else is doing. Yes, you will feel happy and enjoy at first but as soon as it's over your feeling is over it too because you can't feel it yourself. Just be yourself and let things happen if it supposed to happen. That's life.
Life should be an adventure, a journey, a leap into the unknown, a chance
to grow, an opportunity to do something that makes a difference after
you’ve gone. What went wrong? How can you escape from the awfull life you’ve fallen into, and start living a life that really means something to you? Many of us find that other people’s expectations can begin
to rule our lives. Some of us are also people-pleasers. Maybe since children, we liked to be praise from parents and teachers, and we continue seeking
this as adults.
This kind of life-living may involved some problems. Yo cant' please everyone and will never be. Because everyone is not you but maybe you can be everyone. Besides that, their expectation may be based on a narrow point of view and inaccurate view of you. People just make a quick judgement on you. Snap! just like that. Your parents might think you’re crazy. Your friends might laugh at you.
Your brother might call you this and that. Don’t ignore their advice...but don’t be afraid of what they think. Besides we can't please everyone we also can't shut their mouth too.
Furthermore, rejection from others will not ruin your live. It hurts and not fun somehow but it's not ruin your life. Cause you're the one that choose your own path. In life, we need more experiences to live long in future.
Ok ohOokayyyy.. It's been a longgggg time i didn't express this kind of post. Well, sometimes we need some mood or feel to update a blog. It's just like a motivation to write more and more ok. Hahah.. Well, a motivation to persue my study on Master Degree soon. Yah, coming soon. Master Degree (research) entitle Study On Stress-Strain Strength Behavior Of Peat. I got sponsored by the grant ok. Awesome. Thank you Doctor Adnan Zainorabidin. You teach me a lot and make me more independent and convinced me of becoming a wonderful engineer. I really love to learn more on the field that i choose. Thanks for the golden opportunity.
Alright, for now, i've been busy surfing the online shopping's website. It's my new current obsession i guess. Emm not an obsession but close to new hobby i guess..hahah! (awkward awkward). Those are some list of shopping website that i used to view ;) The list will keep on growing i guess :D I already bought a stuff from one of the website. Hahah! 1st time to buy some stuffs using online shopping cart..weehaaaa!
Ok, bye for now.. Make your life happy.
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